Title: My kid
Description: porn
Aryke - April 3, 2007 12:02 AM (GMT)
Alright, I have a daughter and she seems to be addicted to watching porn. She does sheer away from intense ones, and blow jobs, everything else she watches. I always see that she went there on the "history" tab on the Explorer. She is 15, and I think she knows what she is doing. No boyfriend or anything. She knows she has to wait until marrage, and always asks about why sex is so "bad" and why many religions look down on ones who've done it young, or unmarried.
So, do any of you know of ways to make this stop?
Aryke - April 3, 2007 02:13 AM (GMT)
Don't think she knows, I know.
I think she is addicted cause she is slowly doing it more often. I just don't want to tell her to her face "I know you watch porn." Awkward, and might not get the point
Laura - April 3, 2007 02:27 AM (GMT)
oh yeah, that would be awkward and embarrassing, I couldn't imagine being confronted about porn from parent. Other then talking to her about it the only thing I can think of is blocking the websites or maybe mention something about 18+ pop-ups coming up so you are going to get them blocked, then she won't think you've found out. She probably is just curious, but if you think it is a real problem then definitely talk to her about it. Try not to embarrass her you know, Just say you have seen it in the history on the computer, watch your tone of voice, be somewhat compassionate and the chances of her being honest with you will increase. After all it is a awkward position for both of you to be in.
She asks these questions which shows she is really curious, it could be a faze. Have you answered her questions?
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| why sex is so "bad" and why many religions look down on ones who've done it young, or unmarried. |
I know I was told sex was bad which made me rather annoyed, I would of rather herd the dangers and the consequence's like STDs, pregnancy etc. it would of made me want to wait rather then to have to wait.
TheDisturbed1 - April 3, 2007 04:12 AM (GMT)
no doubt, a touchy subject... for me, it sorta burned out after a while, especially when i found some more addicting and fun hobbies.
Be xtra careful about discussing it, just bringing up the subject kinda sets things in an automatically tense mood...
Best of luck!
Vogue - April 3, 2007 07:24 AM (GMT)
there are programs that can easily be purchased that block content that is not PG 13. this would mean that viewing porn on your internet with that program installed would be impossible. its my opinion that porn at that age is natural curiosity. Just because she is watching it does not mean that she is rushing out to have sex. I read somewhere that women have their sexual peak at 16 to 19 which means she could just be maturing earlier. as a society people are getting married later than history but meaning that people are having sex later. people need to realize that sexual peaks occur earlier.
It might be good to discuss with your daughter about her veiws on sex and make sure she realises that you will not hold her opinions against her. this will encorage her to be more honest and not just say things that she thinks you want to hear. You do not necissarly need to make her away of ur knowledge of her porn "addiction".
TheDisturbed1 - April 3, 2007 08:00 AM (GMT)
well put.
but if all else fails, try to imagine how you were at her age/ or if you went thru this stage, what would you have rather done instead of looking at that?
Aryke - April 5, 2007 12:14 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Vogue @ Apr 2 2007, 11:24 PM) |
there are programs that can easily be purchased that block content that is not PG 13. this would mean that viewing porn on your internet with that program installed would be impossible. its my opinion that porn at that age is natural curiosity. Just because she is watching it does not mean that she is rushing out to have sex. I read somewhere that women have their sexual peak at 16 to 19 which means she could just be maturing earlier. as a society people are getting married later than history but meaning that people are having sex later. people need to realize that sexual peaks occur earlier.
It might be good to discuss with your daughter about her veiws on sex and make sure she realises that you will not hold her opinions against her. this will encorage her to be more honest and not just say things that she thinks you want to hear. You do not necissarly need to make her away of ur knowledge of her porn "addiction". |
Thank you. And everyone else! We'll see what happens
Vogue - April 5, 2007 12:27 AM (GMT)
Its cool, we are all here to help, this is an advice site after all. Good luck.
Killerstyle - April 5, 2007 06:02 AM (GMT)
Good Luck with your daughter. :)
WildCherry - April 6, 2007 07:33 PM (GMT)
Maybe your wife could talk to her instead?
TheDisturbed1 - April 18, 2007 10:01 AM (GMT)
Its been over 2 weeks, any updates?
Vogue - April 26, 2007 02:07 AM (GMT)
hmm so what do you think the chances are of this guy coming back.. :( ... so i was wondering what exactly would people do if they were the child in this situation.. like if you found out your parents were aware of u looking at porn, it happened with me and well it just blew over. i have cool parents in a way they figured it was natural and i would get over it.