Title: Help?
xbrokenxdreams - March 10, 2007 06:55 PM (GMT)
Okay so my abusive ex-bf who I previously hadn't talked to in like 2 years, heard from mutual friends I guess that I was single(which Im not but most people dont know that) so he started trying to get back together with me. I told him no but he kept calling and stuff. I kept telling him no so then he started threatning me. I tried to just ignore him hoping he would just forget about it or something but no luck he came over one night and hit me and stuff again.
Ive decided to tell someone about it because my bf wants me too and I want him to be happy and proud of me. I think Im going to tell my school counselor who will have to tell the police but i dont know how, I dont know what to say. Im scared. Help?
Killerstyle - March 10, 2007 10:33 PM (GMT)
Explain the situation to them, just as you did here. and stay far away from him :heart:
xbrokenxdreams - March 10, 2007 10:44 PM (GMT)
Killerstyle - March 10, 2007 10:45 PM (GMT)
Would that work for you? Thats what counselors are there for so I'm sure they have heard almost everything possible.
xbrokenxdreams - March 10, 2007 10:47 PM (GMT)
I dont know. Im thinking maybe Ill just write it out and give it to him so I dont have to say it.
Killerstyle - March 10, 2007 11:08 PM (GMT)
Thats a good idea, writing it is easier then saying it.
xbrokenxdreams - March 10, 2007 11:53 PM (GMT)
yeah. Im still scared though. I dont know if I'll really do it.
Killerstyle - March 11, 2007 06:56 AM (GMT)
What are you scared of?
Okay well whats more scary. A craz-ee ass ex boyfriend or a counsoler?
xbrokenxdreams - March 11, 2007 07:01 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Killerstyle @ Mar 10 2007, 10:56 PM) |
What are you scared of?
Okay well whats more scary. A craz-ee ass ex boyfriend or a counsoler? |
Haha i like how you spelled crazy.
definetly the ex.
Im not really scared of talking to my counselor because im actaully afraid of talking to him Im just scared that Jake(my ex) will somehow find out.
Killerstyle - March 11, 2007 07:07 AM (GMT)
ya I usually spell it like that. I dont know why. :rolleyes:
Why don't you start off with,
"
I need to tell you something but I'm afraid the person its about will find out and do something to harm me.
"
Maybe they can re-assure your or keep an eye on your or do something to see that doesn't happen.
xbrokenxdreams - March 11, 2007 07:14 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Killerstyle @ Mar 10 2007, 11:07 PM) |
ya I usually spell it like that. I dont know why. :rolleyes:
Why don't you start off with,
" I need to tell you something but I'm afraid the person its about will find out and do something to harm me. "
Maybe they can re-assure your or keep an eye on your or do something to see that doesn't happen. |
okay.
This is gunna sound stupid but when I was with him I always felt like he could read my mind and I guess that feeling is still with me and I feel like he's gunna know before I do it.
Sparkle - March 11, 2007 07:22 AM (GMT)
Thats just paronoria. I know it could feel like this, but babe- you need him out of your life. HE is messed up, to be honest- if he's doing this to you...
Tell her your worries. She'll reasurre you. Write a letter and give it to her. Then she'll ask a few questions. Tell her honestley. And then soem thing wil lhappen and he'll be OUT of your life for GOOD.
x x x x
xbrokenxdreams - March 11, 2007 07:33 AM (GMT)