Title: Having Trouble Figuring It Out
Description: I'm not gay...am I?
TheDisturbed1 - June 5, 2007 10:13 AM (GMT)
well.. lust over love is no good thought... you could try picturing a guys ass on a girl, might help.
Being attracted to certain features is a show of character, so not going to kiss a dude says ALOT about your sexuality..
You seem straight enough to me unless you like handbags and are crazy for Gucci lol.
Vogue - June 6, 2007 01:05 AM (GMT)
Most 16 year olds who question themselves do not know by then the answer. Saying you should know by now is like saying that at 16 you should know what career you want for the rest of your life. it happens but it dosent mean its not just as common to still be questioning things. consider the fact that you might be bi sexual. and if you are there is nothing at all wrong with that. i dont really know how to help but dont assume you should know by now. good luck.
xbrokenxdreams - June 6, 2007 06:19 PM (GMT)
Its perfectly normal for you to be confused and its also perfectly normal for you to like certain aspects of the male body.
I dont think your gay. I think you just a little bi-curious.
Dont worry about it so much just do what feels right for you.
Vogue - June 7, 2007 06:01 AM (GMT)
there is no average age. people go through experimental fazes in their life and are still questioning up until the day they day, if i had to say an age id say 25 maybe but thats just what seems realistic to me. good luck. :)
gonecrazy - June 7, 2007 11:25 PM (GMT)
dude thats jus a lil weird....but i have a friend who has an obbession with burning her boy toy......maybe you like pain? and maybe your just curious about guy and their butt and what it would be like to inflict pain on them ......even weird pain like wediges ...( They DO hurt so sont you people look at me like im crazy..........)
LittleMikey - June 8, 2007 12:01 PM (GMT)
just because you like the look of guys it dosent make you gay.
I'd never sleep with a guy, but I do really admire muscly guys, and I have some friends who are quite attractive, and they know it, so they like to do things like jump on me ect :P
However, I'd never want to sleep with a guy, if one took off his pants in front of me i'd run away screaming.
I think the answer is that I find muscled guys attractive because they are what I want to be, I'm not fit at all, and I really do want to be.