hmmk.. well basically i just wanted to throw this question out there. im bi, and having a gf wouldnt be so bad.. hell it would be pretty cool. I go to an all girls school where im out, but the thing is there is only 3 lesbians at my school and im soo not dating any of them. My last gf i met through friends, but i dont think that will ever happen again.

What do u do when your underage, just to meet people to date.. because its harder than u think to pick lesbains out of a crowd, little own get their number... i think u know where im going

this can easily go for straight people too.. when your at an all girls school and you dont have time to go out much, hows it going to work... get a job i guess...

discuss.

Clubs? They can be good for confidence, meeting new people etc.
A job- even if ity's just part time that can be great for making friends and making money :P
Go to party's, meet lots pof people there and they're more likely to open up to people if their drunk :P

hmm i need a job, cause im kinda anti-social hence parties arent so good for me and im not old enough for clubs.

Not drinking clubs, like sports clubs etc

Actaully online is a good place to meet people. Find chat sites for gay/les teens and try and find one near you or if you have myspace search for bi/lez girls in your area, add them, and start talking to them.

yeh online is a good way, but can also be a little dangerous so just be careful, but i kno u sed u dnt wanna do it again and u myt hjav a good reason 4 it, but ive found friends setting u up is a good way. but if u dnt like tht path myb try bebo or myspace. :)
hope ive helped x x x

I totally agree. Online is a good place to meet people as long as you get to know them and you know it's safe. I agree with clubs as well..although you're anti-social maybe it's a chance for you to learn how to meet people through actually interacting..you know..doing something, seeing what's going on, maybe watching other people and their ways with getting to meet a new person. I garantee it's not hard. :tup:

Get to know people. Just because you know of three girls that are out, doesn't mean there can't be more. Just get to know them more then hang out, all of that. Just don't try too hard, start off slow and know when your friends are interested in being friends.

yeh, i dont have a problem with the online thing other than when u meet most people they are soo far away. Ive met someone and he is cool but he lives in alaska :P.. any how... im just really interested in this, because i find it hard to meet people, and i know my friends find it hard too. [we all sit around and complain about it sometimes]

Your friends and you should go out scouting for more friends.. or all move to Alaska.

i can live with moving to alaska... im hopeing to go there once ive finnished school which is just a few months away.. its really expensive though

Well I'm sure you're saving up your money from a job if you have one. If not, well.. that's a start.

gawd i need a job

holy crap...

how the heck did i end up missing this thread?!?!

jeez...
maybe i should start working too! :D

yeh well we have to pay for plane tickets some how.. get a job :P.. just dont meet anyone better than me. it will make me feel bad. :P

Heeey, did you forget about me?

If you want to move to Alaska you both should be working and saving money =] You can always go to the mall and meet people as well, or anywhere else like the movies, bowling etc

i dont really want to move there i guess i just want to see him so that involves me going there or him coming here...

and mikey i havent forgotten about you, ur just never around anymore and its kinda depressing.

I'm around, just boring ^_^