sometimes i feel like a ghost
that ppl jus ignore me, and im invisible
i sometimes feel nobody cares
or wants me there
sometimes i just want a lil hello...
but all i get is a ...
why do u do this?
it makes me feel unwanted :(

ok sorry jus editing this, jus so u kno im tlkin bout some of my m8s
and can u help, wot shud i do

I know how you feel. I was invisible in primary school- not literally of course.

But it is a pain. I often fade in to the background as if I don't exist but when I'm loud..I'm loud :rolleyes:

Maybe you should try making the first move and talk to people and say hi first. :confused: It can be a challenge if you're shy like me but making new friends can be a good thing.

Sorry if that didn't help- I'm not very good at advice :blink:

yeh its good advice thanks - but i do hav friends
its jus sometimes a few of them not all jus ignore me
or thts wot it feels like
sorry i didnt oput it clear
but how do i stop them from ignoring me
do i confront them?

I'd say yes. If you don't say anything or ignore them nothing will change.

Do you have any idea why they might be ignoring you? :-\ Maybe they're avoiding you because they don't know what to say.

Definately agree. Confronting them shows confidence. Shows them you're not scared to approach people with feelings. Way to go!! My advice is..take it gradual..be calm about it and just ask them what's up. Tell them how you're feeling. True friends should understand.

That might start bitching behind your back though like 'omg all he wants is attention.'
I suggest just saying it jokingly- like 'oh, nice of you to say hi.'
And if that doesn't work maybe talk to a few of the more understanding ones and just ask them quietley not to ignore you- they may not even realise they're doing it.

God I hate when people are like that. If you don't really want to say anything why not just say hi to them, maybe they will get used to it and start saying it too you too. If not then I don't think they are that great of friends. I mean you say hi to your friends because its polite not for attention.

thanks guys , u hav all helped
2day was better - it may hav been me being paranoid or ive sed summin
but i fink it may hav sailed - wel i hope
but i felt i was better 2day :)
thank you all :D

np, glad we helped you out :)

I feel like that everyday. I'd just start talking to people and say hi.. just don't tell them you need friends to talk to you, that might scare them away.

:P

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